Praise. Praise for How We Love “How We Love has the capacity to change not only your marriage but every relationship that’s important in your life.”. How We Love has ratings and 99 reviews. In How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory. How We Love. Milan and Kay Yerkovich explain why the ways you and your spouse relate to each other go back to before you even met. Drawing on the.

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Understanding our love styles and taking down the walls created by our imprints are skills that can help every marriage. The key to creating a deeper bond in your marriage may lie buried in your childhood. Jow still recommend it, but go into it seeking help, not guidance. Instead, this is an intensely relevant application of Attachment Theory to help adults understand their patterns in relationships based on their early childhood imprints.

To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up. The Victim Styles 4 and 5 often go together, originating from a chaotic upbringing. Jul 08, Jake Engelke rated it liked it. Loove on the powerful tool of attachment theory, the Yerkoviches identify four types of injured imprints that combine in marriage to trap couples in a repetitive dance of pain.

I agree and yerlovich that where we come from and how we’re raised plays a strong role in ywrkovich, but I was hoping for more of a “now approach”. Some of us try to fix our marriages without ever taking a look at how they yerkovkch. I can see where the workbook will greatly enhance not just the unpacking of the different learning styles but also give insight and guidance on how to begin to be healthy and relate well.

When a friend was describing its premise to me a few weeks ago I was intrigued.


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My dating relationships can be passionate and exciting, but I feel betrayed and duped when that spark is gone. While most people will have a single, dominant Love Style, it is possible for you to have multiple problem areas. Maybe not every suggestion will be a perfect fit for every couple, but I’m sure that every couple can benefit from a few of the ideas and tools.

This book will get the wheels rolling and provide a destination filled with hope, healing, and fulfillment. I found these lists extremely useful in figuring out what fit me the most. I rarely get angry, but when I do I usually hide it rather than show it. Would you like to create an account now? Download our Spring Fiction Sampler Now.

Struggling under a load of resentment? And so with that little bit of possible knowledge about me I dove into the book. I get annoyed when people ask me how I feel. Wonderful guide to learning compassionate conflict resolution skills.

Avoider, Pleaser, Vacillator, Controller, and Victim. All and all it was worth the read. I started skimming for the good stuff. Just a moment while we sign you in to your Goodreads account. Worth a read for anyone, whether or not aware of their own tendencies, in order to understand and learn to prioritize other people in their lives. These same principles can be easily adapted to help a child express their emotions as well.

I took a lot of abuse during my childhood until I threatened and fought back, then it stopped. Refresh and try again.

The goal of this book is to grow deeper emotional intimacy and connection with your spouse through validation and oove understanding of each other’s attachment style, as well as our own. With each page, I felt Milan and Kay had seen my movie! Feb 02, Caleb Benadum rated it really liked it. While the Yerkovich’s are Christians they don’t preach at you, they don’t saturate the book with Christianese, they write for any kind of reader – Christian or not.


Much misunderstanding could be avoided through the practices they suggest. I often feel misunderstood and unsupported in my relationships.

Love Style Quiz – How We Love

Identify the source of missteps in your marriage—and learn exactly what you can do about it! This was a fascinating book. I went into this one thinking I’d find insight on how to strengthen an already strong marriage. Overall, the book was enjoyable and highly recommended. This book was revelatory for me. It yyerkovich help you as you read the book. In How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich help you pinpoint the reason your marriage is struggling—and they reveal exactly what you can do about it.

I have always been sensitive and perceptive and can tell when others are pulling away from me. It’s also not uncommon for people from chaotic backgrounds to initially feel confused as they read about the different imprints. People sometimes describe me as intimidating.

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Are you struggling under a load of resentment? I’m not married, but yerkovkch content of this book is excellent for dicovering one’s own imprint from childhood and how that affects current relationships. There’s also an accompanying workbook that you should get and work through with your spouse as well.

The Face of Water. It is full of some wonderful tools for communication. Tired of arguing with your spouse over the same old issues? But other than that a very good book.

When people hurt me I write them off and end the relationship.

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